The key to happiness in 1000 words and a picture

December, 2010

In the Buddhist model of how people experience the world, craving and aversion are both mental states to be avoided, because they lead to an experience of suffering. “Craving” is simply the outcome of the belief, held by most people, that sounds something like “getting what I want will make me permanently happy”. Conversely, “aversion” [...]

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How to expand your comfort zone

December, 2010

Living in your comfort zone may feel good, but it’s also a trap. When you feel uncomfortable, anxious, or fearful about something, that’s not a signal to avoid it – instead, it’s a message from your unconscious mind that this is an area where you have a great opportunity for growth and improvement. Push yourself [...]

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Travel is good for the mind, body and soul

November, 2010

Most people like traveling, or at least the idea of traveling. Part of this is because people tend to associate travel with holiday time, going some place that they really want to go, and doing whatever they want, whenever they want. This is the fantasy version of travel – absolute freedom, excitement, and liberation. Other [...]

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How to deal with fear – a counterintuitive strategy

November, 2010

Recently, I’ve been thinking about fear. Some interesting blog posts here and here and here got me thinking a lot about the subject, and I revisited an earlier article of mine that offered several effective methods to get past your doubts and fears. Duff McDuffee wrote at Beyond Growth about the “inner critic“, that negative [...]

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Stop procrastinating now – and make rapid progress on your most important goals

October, 2010

As I practice meditation more and more, I learn that it’s not about being perfect, or getting it right. After all, perfection is impossible, despite the dearest dreams of perfectionist people everywhere. Instead, meditation is about starting again and again. During meditation, your focus will probably get derailed lots of times during a single session. [...]

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Learn the secret Jedi mind tricks of the world’s most creative people

October, 2010

A man is rich in proportion to the number of things he can afford to let alone. (Henry David Thoreau) No one can accomplish anything worthwhile without focusing their mind. The ability to consciously direct your attention toward exactly what you choose – at will – is one of the most important abilities for anyone [...]

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Why I’m glad that I caught a cold the the other day

October, 2010

The past couple of days, I’ve been mostly indoors, wearing pajamas. Yep, I had a cold. When I’m first getting a cold, when I first notice the symptoms, I get a certain feeling of unease and I hope that it’s not happening. After all, I’ve got so much stuff to do – blog writing, coaching [...]

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All I really need to know I learned in Fight Club

September, 2010

Warning: If you are reading this then this warning is for you. Every word you read of this useless fine print is another second off your life. Don’t you have other things to do? Is your life so empty that you honestly can’t think of a better way to spend these moments? Or are you [...]

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One simple habit makes your success inevitable

September, 2010

Whatever you measure and act upon gets improved, and whatever you don’t measure doesn’t get improved. In fact, it almost certainly declines. To shift your life in the direction you want, it’s important to “count what counts”, and create the habit of tracking your progress. Consider the example of a garden. Someone tends the garden [...]

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Becoming an optimist is as easy as ABC

September, 2010

Even if you’re feeling good now, you might enjoy being happier, wouldn’t you? Although I’m a happy person most of the time – and I’m grateful for that – I wouldn’t mind feeling happier. I really believe that there’s no limit to the amount of happiness that a person might enjoy. People have known that [...]

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